The Wine Tree

Seven adults, two kids and two dogs crammed in two cars, heading to a secret location. Actually, not so for us, as we had chosen it, but for our band of friends from Arles and Nimes. It is rare that we can get everyone together and so such events are usually planned to down to the minute. “Give us a clue,” an indice, they would shout out every five minutes. The suspense was killing them. And those were the adults. But we remained implacable until arching over the last hill, arriving in the village of Vernègues after a brief but necessary stop at a roadside produce stand (this decried with grumpy rumblings from the hungry travellers in the second car). Melons were bought, the first of the season, for this, the first picnic of the season. Baskets were hoisted, dogs wrangled as we made the hike up to the plateau overlooking the entire valley, with just enough picturesque ruins of an ancient chateau nearby to know that you are in France.
Marie wisely lead us away from the unsheltered spot that I had chosen (but oh what a view it had!) to the shade of a small tree in the middle of the prairie. Blankets were laid and slowly small treasures were put out as offerings. Two quiches, a bowl of taboulé, two kinds of saucissons, olives, my carrots with sun-dried tomato and basil hummus, a bowl of authentic potato salad from the German member of our group, a block of herb and goat cheese bread. Lots of cheese. All simple and largely home-made. I couldn’t help but think back to picnics in Central Park where there was often an unspoken competition to see who could bring the most obscure, gourmet treats but not here. Happily, it appears that picnics do not require crystal flutes on this side of the pond; especially as there was no champagne served but a rosé from the Languedoc region, yep, wine in a box, stashed amidst the branches of the tree for safe keeping. 
Pick and pick and chat and laugh. A tiny wave of silence and then the whole sequence repeating. Shoes off, dogs settling in at nose level to the food. By the time the strawberries with mint was served the rosé, well, it had warmed us more than the sun. 

Jokes were made about having been lead to a magic tree whose fruit was actually wine, then “all hail the Wine Tree”, then “we are members of the Sacred Brotherhood of the Wine Tree”, etc. We all were in stitches. To say that a nap was in order, well, it was mandatory. One of the little ones crawled into a basket for a bit of respite from our silliness as well as a corner of shade. He would later whisper over to me “Heather, stop pretending to sleep.” How he knew that I was I’ll never understand, nor why when kids whisper they actually end up being louder than when they speak normally. The wise ladies that had made the least visits to the Wine Tree went for a stroll. After an hour or so, a game of charades was launched, which seemed a surprisingly unFrenchy thing to do but appropriate for the lightheartedness of the day. 

As we headed back to the cars, we stopped off at the 13th century Saint Jacques church that I had written about last November. Marie, who is an archeologist whose speciality is the medieval period, was pleased. But that wasn’t our real destination. No, we headed off down past the village below to a site that is one of Remi’s and my very favorites. Quite possibly of anywhere in the world. Definitely in the top ten. I didn’t write it about it before as we had wanted to keep it to ourselves, but that isn’t very generous is it? Looks of puzzlement spread across our friends faces as we pulled into the winery of Chateau Bas. Hadn’t we imbibed enough already?

But we weren’t here to have a degustation, a wine tasting, at least not just yet. A path leads to the back of the achingly beautiful manor, one protected by a pack of the largest Goldens that I have ever seen (Ben was kept at a distance, goofy boy, he had no idea what to think of all that fierce barking). The way is nearly closed overhead by whistling oaks, the paving stones scarred with the imprint from centuries of chariot wheels. Walking slowly, I felt, as I always do, as if I were Alice falling down the hole, reeling towards another time.
Columns from a Roman temple top a daisy covered rise. This is what we came to see. Built in the first century BC, it is a Temple to Diana, goddess of the hunt, the moon and protector of women and woodlands. The environment is perfect for her. The first time that Remi and I discovered it, I ended up laying on the ground, literally bowled over. “The peace…the peace…” I kept repeating, as if I were stoned. I feel it every time we visit. It just calls to us. 

Ben feels equally at home here. I always take time to sit on a large stone under the trees to admire the Chapelle St. Cesaire that was added to the temple’s side in 1054. So close together and yet so far apart. Another set of worshipers that kept the land protected. How it remained so even after the French Revolution (when the domaine was divided) is a mystery to me. It seems as if it has always been this perfect place with the manor, the dogs, then quiet. Harmony and elegance defined.

The vineyards are some of the most beautifully kept that I have seen in Provence, something I feel can often be tasted in the wine. Along with the current owners efforts to have their wine be certified bio, or organic, they are also developing enherbement, the planting of micro climates in between rows to help the roots of the vines stabilize and grow deeper while balancing the environment. Though this must certainly lead to a fuller wine, it also makes for a gorgeous setting, with daisies and roses twirling through each other and into the hands of Mathilde and her son. 

We passed on the tasting but were happy to buy more of the excellent 2001 red Cuvée du Temple, a buy at 16 €. Its nearly smoky depths of Syrah, Grenache and Cab will be perfect with a roasted lamb. The dogs were delighted to partake of the Doggy Bar, an even better bargain at “zero €”.  You have to love a wine-maker with a sense of humor. 

Heads nodded off in the backseat as we drove back through the Alpilles, the light delighting those of awake enough to take in its end of the day waltz. A bit of rest was wise as we were all invited to a bbq that evening on Frederique’s terrace. More of the rosé (that had been harvested that afternoon, so to speak) and then red. The conversation flowing like the wine while merguez smoked to crisp perfection. Such good company, even after such a long day, for it was such a special one. I ended the evening singing and then dancing flamenco with one of the children, who remained alert until midnight when we took our leave. Remi would tease me the next morning for having danced alone in the middle of the living room when we got home. He gave up and put in the ear plugs. But that is what joy can do. That and the gifts of the Wine Tree.

Happy Mother’s Day!

I am so crazily fortunate to have such an incredible Mom. The word “fortunate” actually doesn’t begin to cut it. She is beautiful, funny, smart as a whip, incredibly caring, generous, cultivated, very elegant and yet never pretentious. Basically, a finer role model couldn’t be found. She has gone through some very challenging times and yet has stayed true to herself and continues to look forward even when it is scary to do so. I don’t know of anyone, anywhere who likes to have fun more than her. Even though I am the world traveller, she is the adventurous one who will pull me down some nasty looking alley in New Orleans and of course, led by her infallible food radar, find the tastiest restaurant of the trip. She is not ageist and although always appropriate, continues to be the same fantastic dresser that left me googly-eyed while I was growing up. My Mom has unfailingly been there for me and my Sister, always with love and support. The moments I spend with her and they are not often enough, are precious indeed.
I once spent a brunch with her in San Diego on this holiday and made a sign for the table saying “World’s Best, most beautiful Mom” with an arrow pointing to her. I can’t be there today, so here is my sign. I love you!

Animan

I am delighted to let you all know that the story that Remi and I did on the Khampas people in Tibet has been published (including the cover!) in the current issue of Animan. In circulation since 1981, this Swiss magazine has over 250,000 readers with editions in French and German. Their focus is on celebrating the beauty of the world’s diversity and I am proud to have my writing in this high quality publication. 
I promise to write soon about our amazing trip to meet these “Warriors of the Sky”. If you would like to see a few more photos, you can on Remi’s website: The Khampas. 
Have a wonderful weekend!

Petite Pause

 
The French are masters of the pause, the little break. Whether it be a middle of the day espresso at a café, or a whole day out of busy week or even a month or two sabbatical in Summer, they have it down pat. I am still learning how to slow down. You wouldn’t think it so difficult as the rhythm here in Provence is naturally so very much slower than in other parts of the world, but there is a part of my American culture that yells out nasty things whenever I stop just to enjoy. Luckily my dear friend Frederique is far more adept and came up with the idea of an afternoon in Avignon. I agreed on condition that I was able to take her out for a belated birthday lunch–not exactly a demand requiring much negotiations. I made sure to chose wisely, a no-brainer address although a fairly secret one. In the courtyard of the Hôtel de Caumont,  which houses the Collection Lambert, lies the METropolitan restaurant, one of the best in terms of rapport qualité prix (bang for the buck) that I know of. I reserved early (+33 (0)4 86 81 47 49) as there are only about twenty or so tables and each is snapped up by quickly by a largely local group with a few lucky tourists mixed in. The servers are handsome and funny, the ambiance delightful.

We settled in with a sigh of relief (parking is a notorious pain in Avignon) at the little table with my name on it (literally). Soon enough we were “chin“ing over a luscious glass of white and relaxing under the welcome shade of the plane tree. The menu is small and nearly everyone chooses the formule for 16€ which offers a choice of plats and a dessert. As I am always in a perpetual state of sushi withdrawal, I decided on the salmon carpaccio topped with chives, peanuts and spices as well as a balsamic reduction, soy sauce and an aigre-douce sauce for dipping. This was accompanied by an excellent salad that I am going to try and replicate this afternoon: cabbage, sweet peas, tomatoes, parmesan and apples in a soy vinaigrette. Fred went for a more traditional route but her salmon was perfectly cooked and paired well with the butternut squash purée and the ginger cream sauce. For dessert, I was delighted to be offered fresh chevre (goat cheese) and surprised when I was brought a whole one all for myself, with an extra basket of bread. Vive la France! 

Now, the Collection Lambert might ring a bell. This is the site of the attack that I wrote about not too long ago. Fred (as I call her) and I had planned this day beforehand and weren’t going to be thrown off by death threats. If anything, I felt that it was very important to go and support an artistic institution that had been so put under fire (the museum’s owner had also received 30,000 hate emails). The show, Je crois aux miracles, or “I believe in miracles”, was outstanding. Very challenging and I was grateful to have seen it with Fred who has a wider knowledge of contemporary art than I do. Barbara Kruger’s Talk to Me is especially stunning as you enter. But we were both the most moved by seeing Piss Christ, the piece by Andreas Serrano that had been damaged. I was so grateful that the museum decided to keep the work up in its current state because the violence, the hatred involved to smash it so (strangely the face of Christ was the hardest hit) was more frightening than the work itself could ever be. It left me feeling sick and panicky. Fred agreed. There were two young men stationed beside the piece and nearly everyone wanted to ask them questions about…why?

Afterwards, we both felt a need to digest what we had seen and shake it off. It was that powerful. So, yes, a little shopping was in order. And once we had both found a little something, it was late enough for a perrier menthe at one of the many ubiquitous cafés that line the Place de Horloge. We came back to Arles sleepy but elated at the same time. Spirits and bellies well fed. 

The Saturday market in Arles is one of the largest in Provence and though it can be madness, it is worth braving the crowds to find a treasure. Fred and our beautiful friend Mathilde (who exudes so much je ne sais quoi that men turn to stare when she passes) were perhaps a little over ambitious in buying two climbing tomato plants each. But why not? They were only 10 euros for all four.

One of the best examples of the pause that I know of is the after the market stop. Everyone contributes a little something to nibble on–in this case if was a delicate tomme cheese with super sweet strawberries. The café owners do such a brisk business they don’t seem to mind the pique-nique. As it was just us girls, we sat and gossiped until 1:30pm. A fantastic way to get a weekend off to a great start.

My haul from that market day? The first batch of pivoines–peonies! It seems far, far too early but my favorite flower seller assured me that no, they are ready and they are from the region, not to worry. So far they are holding up well as is the rose that he placed silently in with my bouquet.

The Wednesday market, as I have mentioned before, is much more about everyday shopping. No one dresses up to go, as they do on the weekend. Now, as much as I truly try to avoid posting about the market as it is more than a tad cliché, today I can’t resist. It was just so bountiful. Spring really is the finest season for the farmers here. Although asparagus and strawberries are the big stars of the moment, I was most interested by the fresh garlic–especially as the owner of the stand told me that I had to use the stalks as well, perfect in an omelette or pasta. I will! A small gesture that I found touching? When I bought the world’s best goat cheese from my habitual stand, the young woman carefully selected a bit of flowering thyme to press into its heart before wrapping it up like a gift. How wonderful to take a moment to do something well, with kindness–the best kind of pause there is!

Worlds within worlds

I am having a hard time taking in this morning’s news that Osama bin Laden is dead. It doesn’t seem quite real to me, just as the initial events on September 11th didn’t as I was unable to comprehend that something so horrible was possible in our world. I was not in New York City that day but in Paris. There is a photo of Remi and I at the Musée d’Orsay, blissfully in love and completely unaware of what was happening. There was no sign of anything amiss amidst the Monets. I do remember a scurry of activity, an urgency in the air in the lobby of the Ritz and how odd it seemed that we could just stroll in, the front door unattended. But it wasn’t until we returned to our unfurnished new apartment that I heard my Mom’s voice gasping into the answering machine. We had trouble understanding what she was talking about, just able to make out that my Sister was safe but to please call, she needed to hear my voice. Remi turned on the radio as I went upstairs to phone. And again, I couldn’t understand when he yelled out that the “Jumelles” as the Twin Towers are called here, were down. We didn’t have a television yet and so rushed to the offices of Gamma, the news agency that Remi was working for at the time. I think that someone might have taken a photo of me, staring at the screens and crying, but I am not sure. 
As a reporter, Remi was given access to the first flight back to New York. I followed a few days later. Again disbelief as I crossed the Manhattan Bridge, searching for the architectural Welcome Home that had always greeted me. The same over the smell of the smoke, so pungent even up on 51st Street and that feeling deep in my gut that “this is what death smells like”. Wondering why it didn’t fade. Taking flowers to my local fire station, one of the hardest hit in terms of loss. Trying not to read the words of the Missing signs that we all knew were put up in vain. Emotional shutdown.
The boutique hotel in Soho that I had been working at between acting gigs laid me off (our office looked directly on to the WTC and those working that morning saw everything, some fainted cold). My agent immediately moved to California as did one of my best friends. So I hurried up the pace and arrived at Charles de Gaulle Airport on October 27th, 2001. Ready to look forward to a new life. 
I knew that I was lucky to have not lost anyone nor to have even known anyone that lost anyone. But today’s news makes me remember all over again how much we all lost that day. How another world spun off within our world and we have been on that track ever since. And we are still there. Osama bin Laden’s death does not fill me with any sense of joy or that justice has been done. As a former New Yorker, I am still deeply attached to my city and know that there is no real justice for the families that have lost their loved ones nor for the damage to our collective psyche. Not really. I do feel relieved. Even though I know that this is not the end of terrorism in the world. And I feel grateful for the positive messages in President Obama’s speech. May they bring a light to the path ahead. 
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