Patina Style

A beret of gray capped the sky as I opened the shutters this morning. Monday, Monday, Monday after a weekend that disappeared with a puff. I had slept poorly, stifled by odd dreams. Not even the cinnamon-scented coffee that I clutched in my chilled hands could pull me towards a decent mood. And then the buzzer rang. “Oui, bonjour?” I croaked out groggily. “C’est la Poste, j’ai un colis pour vous.” Really? Instantly, the prospects of the day brightened. 
When I saw whom the package was from, my heart did a little loopity-loop. I ran back up to the second floor, lifting it above the reaches of Ben, who was waiting for me impatiently, doing that sly tail wag that makes a Golden golden. Cardboard ripping followed by careful unraveling of tightly tied string and voila! My friend Brooke Giannetti had surprised me with a beautifully dedicated copy of the book that she has created with her husband and partner, Steve Giannetti, Patina Style. Do you know Brooke and her exceptional blog, Velvet & Linen? I am assuming that you do, as she is a well-known figure, especially in the small big world of blogging. But the journalist in me says, “never assume” so if by chance you don’t, by all means click over…just as soon as you have finished this post (ah-hem).
Brooke inspires me–and we are talking about in the every day variety–not only by what she does but also by who she is. In our cynical, rough and tumble culture, we all need reminders that yes, hard work does pay, sometimes the good guy finishes first, not last and even if our best hatched plans go awry, it is not the end of the world. Despite her success, she is consistently generous with her time and efforts–including having mentioned me and this blog (despite it’s being so small), which might just be the reason why some of you are here. Hurrah! She is one of the people that I consider myself lucky to know, even though we haven’t met…yet.
The book that she and Steve have made truly comes from the heart and is a paean to their appreciation of the imperfect, the well-lived. The girl in me who identified heavily with the Island of Misfit Toys can’t help but appreciate this but it equally appeals to my aspirations towards a simplified elegance that has nothing to do with a big budget. In a time where showplaces rule, they are more interested in creating welcoming environments where good experiences are waiting to happen, a balm to our hectic world. There is nothing pretentious in their aesthetic, nor do they dumb down to reach a wider public. If I have peaked your curiosity (and I hope that I have), the book can be found at:
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After being sold out for months, it is indeed in stock. Just in time…

At light’s end

It most certainly is November, tout d’un coup. The Christmas decorations are up, the light is giving its last, most magnificent hurrah before sliding into slumber. At the end of this long week, this long year, I am frankly too tired to be verbose. I hope that these photos, taken on a walk last week in Arles, will make you happy all on their own, without much in the way of commentary.

However, one thing really worth mentioning is the respect that I have for my Mom. Well, always but most certainly today. For she is taking off on a three-week journey through Nepal and India to retrace where Buddha lived. I am so proud of her (and all of us) that decide to keep taking the risks that are right in front of our noses and are all the scarier for it. 

It is not an obvious or easy choice for my Mom to have made but one born out of a certain or uncertain necessity. Similarly, I love to look at Ben, using his sniffer to guide him as he goes. That is the best of life, when we unfold our stubborn cardboard wings to dare, if not to fly, then at least to stand expanded. 

Superstitious

This is going to be a very short post as I am heading back up to la region parisienne for a couple more days of photo shoots. But look at this little potato. Now, I ask you, are you as superstitious as I am? I couldn’t bring myself to cut it! What if it really was a little heart? A symbol for our love? No, best to take the silly route and leave it whole just in case. It got me thinking to my many tiny rituals, little gestures that I have to help keep my universe in order. True, as a former actress, I tend towards the highly superstitious. No crossing under ladders, no crossing black cats, and I always have to say “I love you” before getting off the phone with my dear ones. 
And you?

I love everything, deux

Remi and I were walking through Disneyland Paris. Night had just fallen. We were tired and tripping over our feet, trying to weave through the crowds. Suddenly the loud speakers barked out an announcement: “Please welcome Princess Aurora and her court!” White lights tracked to a stage that was instantly filled with dancers dressed in full Louis XIV regalia. The music began to swell. 
“I know you, I walked with you once upon a dream…I know you, that gleam in your eyes seems so familiar to me…” 
Despite myself, I started to sway in the dark, embarassed at first at my sentimental behaviour. Then I gave in and drank down the memories from long ago, covered by the shadows cast by a too full moon. For childhood still lives in us if we let it. We all know this. The capacity to wonder…by beauty so close it is a second skin…

To let our hearts open and open and open….

I hope that you have enjoyed this second set of photos of Aix-en-Provence. It is no Disneyland, it is a real, bustling town but it can have the same effect for an adult like me. Both are most certainly worth the visit, for we all need to let ourselves dream now and again…

Past Adventures: A rose with greater thorns

For Halloween, I decided to make a change from my usual white roses, opting instead for a stunning orange-hued bouquet. They were extremely hardy, more so than the delicately perfumed varietals that are from the Var. “They will last you two weeks, no problem,” the vendor assured me. “They are so beautiful, ” I thanked him as I paid. “Where are they from?” “Are you ready for this? Ethiopia.” My heart sank. I instantly knew the true story behind these flowers, one that drained them of their color, turning them to gray.

Photo ©Remi Benali

In 2003, Remi and I were given one of our most fascinating assignments. We were to delve deep into the Omo Valley in the south-eastern corner of Ethiopia to do a story on the Surma tribe for Grands Reportages Magazine here in France. It took three days of bouncing in a 4×4, the last of which was off-road, to arrive in the region. I remember getting out of the truck with relief, only to see a young boy licking the dust off the vehicle. “Oh, don’t do that,” I whispered in vain. Here we were beyond language, we had driven to the other side of the moon. 
Photo ©Remi Benali

As with the other tribal peoples in the area, the Surma were living in conditions similar to those of the Bronze Age. Their reputation as fierce warriors was balanced out by a finesse for decorating their bodies with paint made out of chalk from the surrounding hills.
Photo ©Remi Benali

Photo ©Remi Benali



This is the beginning of the English version of my article, “Surma Pride”:

A battle is raging in the land of the Surmas, fierce warriors hidden in the Omo Valley. United body and soul to their cattle, they engage in fierce combat to conquer and protect their herd. Will they resist the changes that are over-taking so many traditional cultures in the region?

“Now I go to drink the blood.”
Luko beckons us to follow him through the herd of 40 or so cows that graze in the dappled mid-afternoon sunlight. Suddenly, he leaps forward with the agility of a cat, grabs hold of the hind legs of a blond bull, and, with the help of three others, subdues it into submission. Then, lowering himself beneath its neck, he takes aim and releases his bow. Once, twice, thrice–no luck. He stops to sharpen the point of his arrow and on the fourth try, a stream of bright red blood comes tumbling forth. His son extends a calabash to catch the flow and all are silent as the bull’s eyes roll back into its head. When it is full, Luko reaches around for a handful of leaves–his naked body, skin so black that it is almost purple, brushing against the silk of the cow–and gently, meticulously cleans its wound. He takes the bowl and drinks, slowly, with no trace of blood escaping onto his lips. As he scatters the remaining dregs on the grass for his dog, Luko`s movements are heavy and awkward, as if drunk from the power of the fresh blood that is coursing through his veins.
Luko is one of an estimated 10,000 people who comprise the Surma tribe of Ethiopia.  Renowned as fierce warriors, they are believed to have once been the dominators of the lower Omo Valley. Due to famine and tribal warfare, they have slowly been pushed past the north-western shores of the Omo River, close to the border with Sudan. It is one of the most inaccessible regions on the African continent–an arduous three days drive from the capitol of Addis Abeba across a mountainous road that bends like a roller-coaster, slowly dissolving into a dust as dark and slippery as oil. Woe betides the traveler that is caught here when the rainy season descends–as Mother Nature does not call, she demands. Indeed, as our trip was just before the first rains of April, such were our concerns. Each night, as the rains would pound on our tent like a drum we would think, “Will we be able to get out?”

Text ® Heather Robinson
Photo ©Remi Benali

Photo ©Remi Benali




Our experience amidst the Surma was both draining and incredibly rewarding. During our afternoon nap one day, a thieving member of a neighboring tribe was captured. We were woken up by the shot that killed him. Thank goodness that our guard only told us that he didn’t have any bullets in his rifle on the final day. And yet there were incredibly tender moments as well. The boy that I am holding in the photo above followed us everywhere, to the point that we made up a song about him. “I’ve got a sweetie, a sweetie on the side,” it began as an ode to his forever being perpendicular with our knees. At some point, he casually reached up to take my hand and by the end of our trip, he was doing his best to sing along, mainly coming in squeakily at the end with each “siiiide.” Exceptional beauty, exceptional kindness.

Photo ©Remi Benali

Photo ©Remi Benali
The Surma’s way of life, as is that for all of the tribes in the Omo Valley, is in danger. When Remi returned to the region in 2005, the road that we had heard would link Addis Abeba, the Ethiopian capital, to Nairobi was well under way, bringing with it not only an influx of tourism but also disease and prostitution. Even more frightening, the Ethiopian government has recently increased the amount of land that can be rented to foreign corporations that are happy to cultivate the rich soil, even if that means displacing hundreds, if not thousands, of tribal members from their lands. At best, the tribesmen will be “relieved” of their traditions and converted into plantation workers. At worst, these completely self-sufficient people will be stripped of their means of survival entirely. Furthermore, there is now a plan to build the GIBE III dam that will entirely block the water flow of the Omo River in order to irrigate the land for future plantations. For further information and if you would like to be involved, please see the recent article on Survival International’s website: Survival International.

I want to thank Remi for allowing me to use his beautiful photography to illustrate this post. As all images are copyrighted world-wide with the Library of Congress in Washington, DC, please do not borrow, print, pin or convert them in any form.
Photo ©Remi Benali
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