Comm:unity

It is very bittersweet for me to announce that this is the final posting for the “By Invitation Only” group, who have been getting together from all over the world to blog about a common theme for five years now. This project was the idea of Marsha Harris at Splenderosa and involves some spectacularly talented women – truly, I was honored to have been asked to participate, especially as I was one of the only members to have a “small” blog when I joined. I have loved linking up with everyone’s different perspectives each month and often tried to come up with something special for BIO in a bendy twisty way that sort of matched the theme – not always easy as I stubbornly make all of my own content! But the result was that some of my favorite, favorite posts have come out of this collaboration such as:
http://lostinarles.blogspot.fr/2012/09/the-weight-of-cricket.html
http://lostinarles.blogspot.fr/2013/09/the-jangle-of-times-keys.html
http://lostinarles.blogspot.fr/2014/04/ten-things-to-take-on-cruise-for-by.html
and just because the timing is so appropriate
http://lostinarles.blogspot.fr/2013/12/snow-on-lavender-fields-christmas.html

For this month, the ever-talented Vicki Archer suggested that we talk about blogging…the highs and the lows…where it is at and where we feel that it is going. 

At the end of last October, before my fifth anniversary of blogging here at Lost in Arles, I gave a lot of thought to this subject. I shared some of my thoughts then and was so overwhelmed by your generous responses that I still haven’t caught my breath. You are all most certainly the “high”s (and the “low”s too when you leave, I admit it is something that I will never take lightly) but so is the thrill of a great afternoon passing in the blink of an eye until I wake up after having hit “publish.”
I realize very well that blogging has evolved enormously in these past five years…but at such a rapid rate that I am fairly sure that my “old-school” style of publishing when I want and what I want is also boomeranging back to what is appealing as well. At least those of you that are here – that goes without saying! Authenticity is such an important word to me. A friend recently jokingly called me a “phony” and I thought that my head was going to explode! Being sincere is never out of fashion in my book…

…because through direct (even while virtual) communication we can find unity together. 
And I don’t know about you but in this crazy beautiful world I need you all more and more. We are none of us invisible or unimportant.

So finally, a blog that has a sense of community is what is interesting to me today and I honestly think that is the direction that we are headed towards, no matter what the subject matter is finally…

…and I can share a few examples of people who I feel are doing this effortlessly and meaningfully:
In each of these blogs, the readers not only react to the author but also to each other in a really wonderful way. I have always been something of an outsider but being able to make connections through the mind-boggling big-small world is something that I still can’t wrap my head around. But my heart? I am all in.

So as this door is closing, I would just like to say thank you to all of those who have supported or been a part of By Invitation Only. I am extremely proud to have created in the midst of such a fine comm:unity and that I have made quite a friendships out of it too is just the icing on what was a very delicious cake.

To read all of the fantastic posts from my amazing colleagues (and Marsha has requested that we all chime in for this final post), please do click:
Thank you, Marsha for an amazing run and Brava!
But you know how the saying goes, yes? When one door closes…another opens…
What about the door above? Curious?
Then stay tuned…

79 comments

  1. Wouldn't we all have a fantastic time if we could get together in the same…say, giant villa on Lake Como? 😉 Eh oui, one can dream but you have already met some of my favorite people so that means it is possible…
    Wishing you a beautiful holiday season as well and yes…onwards to a great 2016!

  2. Hooray! So we will be a happy band of twirlers then!

    Victoria, thank you SO much for your really kind compliments here, they mean so much to me. You have been stopping by for quite some time now and I appreciate that quite a lot. We all need to stick together right now…xo
    H

  3. On a good day they might. I really am happy when both text and photos go together. And am crazily particular about the layout, even if I usually do include more photos than I should…!

  4. Stephen? I think this is an absolutely brilliant description of where the two blogging modes are right now and both work, that is thing – it just depends on what is of interest to each reader. I love it! And…I love me a bit of CDR (although I would not have known what you were talking about either and I live here!)…Which is reason 4830 why you need to come over to visit…Hello? Wine tasting!!
    xo

  5. Your photos just scream Provence. It looks so serene and pretty.I love your blog because you have remained true to yourself. I think that readers can tell which blogs are genuine and which are out there to make some quick money. I am also noticing a loss in subscribers (not that I have many) and I am wondering whether people are actually un-subscribing or whether Blogger has stopped supporting readers who are not on Blogspot.

  6. You already know what my response to this beautiful commentary was. But thank you again with all of my heart…and I am glad to know that I am not alone in the "resistance" too! To each his own and we will just have to keep finding our way…
    With much Love and Gratitude,
    H

  7. Merci, Soeur! 😉 As I said above, I respect Marsha's decision for BIO to stop and think it is time. As for the village? I did a lot of posts when we first moved here and then thought that I had covered the ground (as it really is tiny) but I guess I was wrong?
    Love you so much!!

  8. Much Mahalo for that particular wish, Bill. I am trying to stay on track. Hoping your wings keep reaching…
    Aloha,
    Heather

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