Comm:unity - Lost in Arles

It is very bittersweet for me to announce that this is the final posting for the “By Invitation Only” group, who have been getting together from all over the world to blog about a common theme for five years now. This project was the idea of Marsha Harris at Splenderosa and involves some spectacularly talented women – truly, I was honored to have been asked to participate, especially as I was one of the only members to have a “small” blog when I joined. I have loved linking up with everyone’s different perspectives each month and often tried to come up with something special for BIO in a bendy twisty way that sort of matched the theme – not always easy as I stubbornly make all of my own content! But the result was that some of my favorite, favorite posts have come out of this collaboration such as:
http://lostinarles.blogspot.fr/2012/09/the-weight-of-cricket.html
http://lostinarles.blogspot.fr/2013/09/the-jangle-of-times-keys.html
http://lostinarles.blogspot.fr/2014/04/ten-things-to-take-on-cruise-for-by.html
and just because the timing is so appropriate
http://lostinarles.blogspot.fr/2013/12/snow-on-lavender-fields-christmas.html

For this month, the ever-talented Vicki Archer suggested that we talk about blogging…the highs and the lows…where it is at and where we feel that it is going.

At the end of last October, before my fifth anniversary of blogging here at Lost in Arles, I gave a lot of thought to this subject. I shared some of my thoughts then and was so overwhelmed by your generous responses that I still haven’t caught my breath. You are all most certainly the “high”s (and the “low”s too when you leave, I admit it is something that I will never take lightly) but so is the thrill of a great afternoon passing in the blink of an eye until I wake up after having hit “publish.”

I realize very well that blogging has evolved enormously in these past five years…but at such a rapid rate that I am fairly sure that my “old-school” style of publishing when I want and what I want is also boomeranging back to what is appealing as well. At least those of you that are here – that goes without saying! Authenticity is such an important word to me. A friend recently jokingly called me a “phony” and I thought that my head was going to explode! Being sincere is never out of fashion in my book…

…because through direct (even while virtual) communication we can find unity together.

And I don’t know about you but in this crazy beautiful world I need you all more and more. We are none of us invisible or unimportant.

So finally, a blog that has a sense of community is what is interesting to me today and I honestly think that is the direction that we are headed towards, no matter what the subject matter is finally…

…and I can share a few examples of people who I feel are doing this effortlessly and meaningfully:

http://momastery.com/blog/

http://thebloggess.com/

http://havesomedecorum.blogspot.fr/

In each of these blogs, the readers not only react to the author but also to each other in a really wonderful way. I have always been something of an outsider but being able to make connections through the mind-boggling big-small world is something that I still can’t wrap my head around. But my heart? I am all in.

So as this door is closing, I would just like to say thank you to all of those who have supported or been a part of By Invitation Only. I am extremely proud to have created in the midst of such a fine comm:unity and that I have made quite a friendships out of it too is just the icing on what was a very delicious cake.

To read all of the fantastic posts from my amazing colleagues (and Marsha has requested that we all chime in for this final post), please do click:

http://splenderosa.blogspot.fr/2015/12/by-invitation-only-final-post.html

Thank you, Marsha for an amazing run and Brava!

But you know how the saying goes, yes? When one door closes…another opens…

What about the door above? Curious?

Then stay tuned…

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Right? I thought so too and so foolishly tried to pet it but kitty pulled away, immediately knowing that I am a dog person as if to say, "who do you think you are fooling?" 😉

I think you pretty much defined the essence of this blog and our connection right there, Carolyn! You really did. Thank you SO much for your kindness and the wish for a magical Christmas. The attacks in Paris are still really present, so I appreciate that wish so much and am sending it back to you and yours ten-fold.

It is just the right time for it to end, Sandy. It feels that way at least. But I will miss it.

And thank you for the compliments on the photos – I am always "chuffed" when such a fine artist as yourself says something so kind about them.

Bisous.

Gosh, I detest change too Tina. Wishing you a fabulous 2016. Time to open the bubbly, cheers!

Sending it right back to you from Provence, Jackie!! And to the beautiful wishes as well…I agree, it is only partially an ending…BIO lives on in our friendships.

I agree with you and feel really grateful for it as well. Now, we just need to get you over here to meet all of your fans in France!

Absolutely. I agree with Vicki…there is room for so many ways of creating a real contact…something you know quite a bit about as well, Emily… 😉

Ooh, I am so sorry for the false alarm, Jo-Anne and thank you for your very kind compliment!!

Merry Christmas my beautiful friend! And of course I will be twirling…I think it is such a beautiful idea!!!

Thanks to wonderful, loyal people such as yourself, Judith…Wishing you a wonderful end to 2015! xo

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