Comm:unity

It is very bittersweet for me to announce that this is the final posting for the “By Invitation Only” group, who have been getting together from all over the world to blog about a common theme for five years now. This project was the idea of Marsha Harris at Splenderosa and involves some spectacularly talented women – truly, I was honored to have been asked to participate, especially as I was one of the only members to have a “small” blog when I joined. I have loved linking up with everyone’s different perspectives each month and often tried to come up with something special for BIO in a bendy twisty way that sort of matched the theme – not always easy as I stubbornly make all of my own content! But the result was that some of my favorite, favorite posts have come out of this collaboration such as:
http://lostinarles.blogspot.fr/2012/09/the-weight-of-cricket.html
http://lostinarles.blogspot.fr/2013/09/the-jangle-of-times-keys.html
http://lostinarles.blogspot.fr/2014/04/ten-things-to-take-on-cruise-for-by.html
and just because the timing is so appropriate
http://lostinarles.blogspot.fr/2013/12/snow-on-lavender-fields-christmas.html

For this month, the ever-talented Vicki Archer suggested that we talk about blogging…the highs and the lows…where it is at and where we feel that it is going. 

At the end of last October, before my fifth anniversary of blogging here at Lost in Arles, I gave a lot of thought to this subject. I shared some of my thoughts then and was so overwhelmed by your generous responses that I still haven’t caught my breath. You are all most certainly the “high”s (and the “low”s too when you leave, I admit it is something that I will never take lightly) but so is the thrill of a great afternoon passing in the blink of an eye until I wake up after having hit “publish.”
I realize very well that blogging has evolved enormously in these past five years…but at such a rapid rate that I am fairly sure that my “old-school” style of publishing when I want and what I want is also boomeranging back to what is appealing as well. At least those of you that are here – that goes without saying! Authenticity is such an important word to me. A friend recently jokingly called me a “phony” and I thought that my head was going to explode! Being sincere is never out of fashion in my book…

…because through direct (even while virtual) communication we can find unity together. 
And I don’t know about you but in this crazy beautiful world I need you all more and more. We are none of us invisible or unimportant.

So finally, a blog that has a sense of community is what is interesting to me today and I honestly think that is the direction that we are headed towards, no matter what the subject matter is finally…

…and I can share a few examples of people who I feel are doing this effortlessly and meaningfully:
In each of these blogs, the readers not only react to the author but also to each other in a really wonderful way. I have always been something of an outsider but being able to make connections through the mind-boggling big-small world is something that I still can’t wrap my head around. But my heart? I am all in.

So as this door is closing, I would just like to say thank you to all of those who have supported or been a part of By Invitation Only. I am extremely proud to have created in the midst of such a fine comm:unity and that I have made quite a friendships out of it too is just the icing on what was a very delicious cake.

To read all of the fantastic posts from my amazing colleagues (and Marsha has requested that we all chime in for this final post), please do click:
Thank you, Marsha for an amazing run and Brava!
But you know how the saying goes, yes? When one door closes…another opens…
What about the door above? Curious?
Then stay tuned…

79 comments

  1. And thank goodness for that! I swoon to think of anyone trying to boss either of us around… 😉

  2. only when you want and what you want. that's how it should be. xox
    do you know the name of the plant with the blue berries. I would like to plant this in my garden. I wanted blue berries on this year's wreath. Instead I painted some red ones blue.

  3. Dear Heather,
    Very thoughtful "final" post! Final because 5 years of an unique BIO blog-event comes to an end, to a bittersweet one, I agree.
    Marsha has made such an effort to bring successfully "the world" together.
    Although I have reduced blogging/posting to some extend, it was – and still is – uplifting to read all posts, to enjoy each one.
    Yes, this "special door" is closing.
    But as Hermann Hesse wrote: "Jedem Abschied wohnt ein neuer Angang inne" –

    "At life's each call the heart must be
    prepared to take its leave and to commence afresh,
    courageously and with no hint of grief
    submit itself to other, newer ties.
    A magic dwells in each beginning and
    protecting us it telss us how to live."

    Amicalement, Karin

  4. You are a very special person with amazing talents, writing and photography – just incredible today! But, even more importantly, you have been there for me so many times, I can't tell you how much it has meant to me. I just am going to scoot back up and look again at your photos today, they are luscious. Your writing is so poetic and so real, it touches my heart.

  5. Your photos and text flourish as they flow down the stream. Each of your thoughts that you published is unique.

    "When one door closes…another opens…"
    I’m curious.

  6. You see, ALL the comments !!! I knew you belonged to our lovely group, and it has been a blessing to me that you said yes way back then. This post is so evocative, I can tell how much thought you put into it, our finale. Community. Yep, exactly !!! Merry Merry Merry Christmas, darlings, all 4 of you…

  7. dear Heather, as always I appreciate your blog, your thoughts , your pictures and your style of writing. I wish you
    and Remy a silent Xmas eve but at most a healthy, happy and peaceful 2016 where I am looking forward to
    enjoy your blog again.

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