Comm:unity

It is very bittersweet for me to announce that this is the final posting for the “By Invitation Only” group, who have been getting together from all over the world to blog about a common theme for five years now. This project was the idea of Marsha Harris at Splenderosa and involves some spectacularly talented women – truly, I was honored to have been asked to participate, especially as I was one of the only members to have a “small” blog when I joined. I have loved linking up with everyone’s different perspectives each month and often tried to come up with something special for BIO in a bendy twisty way that sort of matched the theme – not always easy as I stubbornly make all of my own content! But the result was that some of my favorite, favorite posts have come out of this collaboration such as:
http://lostinarles.blogspot.fr/2012/09/the-weight-of-cricket.html
http://lostinarles.blogspot.fr/2013/09/the-jangle-of-times-keys.html
http://lostinarles.blogspot.fr/2014/04/ten-things-to-take-on-cruise-for-by.html
and just because the timing is so appropriate
http://lostinarles.blogspot.fr/2013/12/snow-on-lavender-fields-christmas.html

For this month, the ever-talented Vicki Archer suggested that we talk about blogging…the highs and the lows…where it is at and where we feel that it is going. 

At the end of last October, before my fifth anniversary of blogging here at Lost in Arles, I gave a lot of thought to this subject. I shared some of my thoughts then and was so overwhelmed by your generous responses that I still haven’t caught my breath. You are all most certainly the “high”s (and the “low”s too when you leave, I admit it is something that I will never take lightly) but so is the thrill of a great afternoon passing in the blink of an eye until I wake up after having hit “publish.”
I realize very well that blogging has evolved enormously in these past five years…but at such a rapid rate that I am fairly sure that my “old-school” style of publishing when I want and what I want is also boomeranging back to what is appealing as well. At least those of you that are here – that goes without saying! Authenticity is such an important word to me. A friend recently jokingly called me a “phony” and I thought that my head was going to explode! Being sincere is never out of fashion in my book…

…because through direct (even while virtual) communication we can find unity together. 
And I don’t know about you but in this crazy beautiful world I need you all more and more. We are none of us invisible or unimportant.

So finally, a blog that has a sense of community is what is interesting to me today and I honestly think that is the direction that we are headed towards, no matter what the subject matter is finally…

…and I can share a few examples of people who I feel are doing this effortlessly and meaningfully:
In each of these blogs, the readers not only react to the author but also to each other in a really wonderful way. I have always been something of an outsider but being able to make connections through the mind-boggling big-small world is something that I still can’t wrap my head around. But my heart? I am all in.

So as this door is closing, I would just like to say thank you to all of those who have supported or been a part of By Invitation Only. I am extremely proud to have created in the midst of such a fine comm:unity and that I have made quite a friendships out of it too is just the icing on what was a very delicious cake.

To read all of the fantastic posts from my amazing colleagues (and Marsha has requested that we all chime in for this final post), please do click:
Thank you, Marsha for an amazing run and Brava!
But you know how the saying goes, yes? When one door closes…another opens…
What about the door above? Curious?
Then stay tuned…

79 comments

  1. Heather,
    Reading your blog is more than pet, people, and photo therapy enjoyed. Your words are always thought provoking and illuminating in the spiritual sense. Simply put, I like being here. I am sad to see the group end, and that nobody is taking up the helm to continue on.
    Your style of blogging does have a way of evolving into a community whether the reader comments or not. Bravo!

  2. Dear Heather, what a wonderful post and what you write is so very true! I just love blogging because of our blog we are able to meet people from around the world, with who we can share our passion, whatever it might be, interior design, fashion, photography,… We do meet kindred spirits or people who just love what we share on our blog. Thank you for your wonderful blogpost this year! I am always delighted by your beautiful and wellthought posts. And I just love the way you write.
    Thank you for your friendship, it means a lot to me.
    Wishing you wonderful Christmas days!
    Warm hug,
    Greet

  3. I often wish there were a like icon. Again and again, a person comments just what I was thinking, often better said. I hate to reply "me too, me too! "

  4. Yes, add me to the list of folks who think the community of friends that has developed as result of my blogging far exceeds anything I ever expected. Often times it is a friend in this community who says just the right thing at the right time and quite frequently provides more support than real-time friends and family (some of whom don't even look at my blog). Will miss 'By Invitation Only. . ."

  5. Heather, I agree that the community we bloggers have created is indeed the best thing about this whole endeavor. I truly hope we can meet someday in person. Happy Holidays and have a wonderful 2016!

  6. It is sad to see the end of our BIO community. Marsha brought together some of the very best. Your writing and images always move me!! Have a wonderful holiday.
    Xx Jennifer

  7. Haha! Well I commented here first! Then by the time I had done most of my chopping and cleaning for dinner and popped over to your blog I had poured some CDR=Côtes du Rhône 🙂

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