When I realized that I was going to have a room all to myself in our new house my heart filled with…wonder. It did. And there are days when I still can’t believe my good fortune and so I pace its perimeters to lay claim. It is as if I have been magically transported back to childhood and have built myself the coziest tree-house…
… far on high. I can hear my knees crack at times as I climb and climb the stairs, hand surfing the iron railing, but it is worth it. Once I arrive, I can close the wooden door and settle in. My thoughts, my wishes, my emotions all have their space.
I don’t really like calling it my office, mon bureau, for it is a friendlier space than that and the “work” that gets done is not of the pinpoint kind. Yes, it is where I write and sort out my photographs (by the by, that is the 15 Euros Gobelin tapestry behind my desk. We will hang it one of these days)…
…But also where I read and dream in my comfy old fauteuil draped with an even older ikat brought back from Bali. I balance my tea precariously on the broken wicker trunk that I bought at the local flea market for 20 Euros (I keep tightly stacked journals inside, all of those lines from days gone by). In the evenings, the light is strong enough to read by without squinting and the lampshade reminds me of my earliest days in France (Remi bought them – they are a set – as a surprise before I moved over, one of the very first purchases for our life together. He guessed that I would like a little leopard in my new abode and he was right). And if, for whatever reason I am really not sorted, then I can always curl up on my boutis covered bed and hide within a nap.
When I am lost in searching for a word or leaning on a phrase, I let my gaze settle on the details surrounding me, such as the odd solidity of the sloping, propped up wooden beams (How could they possibly hold up the roof just above?)…
…and the exceptional patina of the terra-cotta floor tiles…
…that had, at some point, been painted over in a deep burgundy red, which was – thank goodness! – carefully removed by a later resident who likes the underneath just like me. When I roll out my yoga mat, I can hear the broken tiles crackle underfoot. I think that they date from the 18th century. Everyone who visits remarks upon them in particular and about the deuxième étage in general. Actually, when we made that fateful first visit to the house, the room that would become my own was instantly my favorite. Lucky, lucky.
There are two windows and so there is always light passing through one way or another. A small one looks north out over the rooftops and has shutters so ancient that they droop soggily from their hinges and clank crankily when the wind starts to blow.
The window at the front opens above the olive and magnolia trees in our courtyard. There is a pair of turtledoves – oui, les tourterelles! – that bill and coo while perched on an antennae rising from the house across the lane. Les mésanges flit past. Oh, how they sing and swoop. Such beautiful music.
Finally, I have found a space where I feel comfortable displaying the beautiful portrait that Remi created for me on my 40th birthday from a photograph that he had taken when we had first met. In the safety of my room, I can consider the gaze of that young Me with kindness and not flinch.
I still haven’t organized my books but am always so proud when, in the midst of scrambling for such and such volume, I come across a tome that has been written by a friend piled in amidst Shakespeare and the Brontë’s.
For you see, it is a sentimental space, my room. Only I know the hows and the whys of each little piece that I have put out simply to please me and no one else…from the battered Reynolds style engraving that I named “Marie” when I bought her at 15…
…to the pastels of a series of beautiful, strong and interesting women who inspire me to be true. I can only imagine their gossip after I turn out the lights each night.
Here, I can stack my train cases, even if there is not a voyage to be taken anytime soon…
…where I can remember collecting shells on the shores of a hurricane-grazed island lost in Pacific and gaze at the Buddha to root me right where I am. Backwards, forwards and quietly hovering in the present. Something of a destination in itself. In my room, a room of my own, I feel at peace and utterly at home.
to listen: some lovely music that is fittingly eclectic for this post…
Orange Blossom – Mexico from copilux on Vimeo.
Do you have a corner for yourself chez vous? I think that it is more important than we imagine.
Bon Weekend tout le monde!
Everybody has heart? I know that you do for certain! And maybe if ate less like you do my knees wouldn't be cracking so much! Thank you for the compliment…coming from you…
Bisous.
Ah, a studio! That is perfect. We call Remi's work space his atelier but a studio is just right. And I love that portrait too but I don't feel comfortable putting it out in the more public spaces in the house like "Hey! Look at me!" 😉
This room looks just like it was made for you. Prepared for your arrival and ready to receive all those objects, books and artpieces fulfilling its purpose.
The sealing high enough to give inspiration space, a view to be carried away by contemplation and the walls echoeing your thoughts.
Happy "woman in the attic"!
Thanks for sharing your special place with us. Your descriptions bring it to life. I love the portrait; Did Remi paint it? Amazing photographer and painter.
Dear Heather, I love it. It is beautiful. I have a very little space that I call my own but it's not a whole room. Just a corner of an alcove that leads to our living room. I dream of my own room sometimes but I am thankful for my little space. Wishing you much joy …
I'm happy for you to find your little castle. It's so important for our wellbeing to have some private space and if it
is such a cozy room like yours nothing can't get better. Spend many wonderful hours in that place and enjoy and be grateful for that historic gem.
Oh, almost jealous! Pleased for your good fortune- it is impossible to resent people when they genuinely know how lucky they are 🙂 x
Agree that the word "studio" describes this place perfectly. And, when one lives with another a space that is all their own is incredibly important. I, too, have my own "studio," though it does still contain remnants of my older son…. which are maybe important to me, even if they no longer are to him.
I am thrilled that you have such wonderful light — something that you can't fix if its not there. Write well, rest well, learn, experiment and enjoy your meaningfully appointed space, Heather.
Heather, your room is so lovely!!! Oh dear! Love the gobelin and love that floor!!!!! I also have a room of myself and could not miss! But yours is much more charming! Enjoy as much as you can!
Bon weekend mon amie!
xx
Weeee! So happy to get a sneak peek at your room! Love the views, the tiles, the books; seeing lots of things I don't remember you having! It all looks very cozy and very YOU! I don't really have a room that's mine; in the mornings I have a corner of the couch, but my meditation/Buddhist shrine is in the room, so that makes me happy. And during the week the whole house is mine, so that's pretty sweet as well! And have my "things" around me – not as cool as your "things", but they help me to feel settled in our new-ish house. Thank you for sharing – love all your pics and words!