I know how lucky I am and you can bet your bottom dollar that I am grateful.
For I’ll tell it to you straight, my Mom is beautiful, funny, smart and incredibly loving.
She loves to be silly.
Just the sound of her voice on the phone makes me smile but she prefers it if she can make me laugh right off the bat.
She has stood by my wonderful Sister and I through good times and bad, the glamorous and the sad.
She showed us about simple love and it was she who taught me to find happiness in those hidden moments. That yes, the taste of cherry jam counts.
My Mom transferred her fondness for four-legged creatures to us with the instructions that they are to be welcomed as part of the family…
…and encouraged us to follow even our wildest childhood dreams.
To be true.
We did and do, she cheers.
I am proud to be a contributor to the amazing D.A. Wolf’s incredible “blog” (for it is far more than that, she delivers original, thought-provoking content seven days a week) Daily Plate of Crazy. When DA asked if I would like to participate in her series on Mother-Daughter relationships, I nearly shouted out a “Yes!” Oh, this meant so much for me to do. So if you enjoyed this introduction, I would be so very delighted if you would take a look at my post here:
Thank you again for asking me to write this DA, it was a reminder that the best gifts rarely come in boxes.
I love you, Mom!
For you…
PS. My Mom reminded me of a story that I had nearly forgotten from when I was in my 20s and a little Miss Manhattanite Hipster. I was with a group of girlfriends at a swank martini bar and a few rounds in the subject of Mothers came up. Well, as each girl told her story, the scenarios became increasingly fraught with tension and complexity. All the while I was sitting there thinking, “Oh my, I hope something happens to change the subject before it is my turn. I only have nice things to say!”
Wishing you all a week full of joy…
I hope so N because I haven't sent anything else!!! 😮
Please forgive me for not commenting on my first read through. What you've written is wonderful, Heather, but knowing you I could imagine no less. Your mother is beautiful — like mother, like daughter.
xoxo,
Tish
Heather, what a beautiful tribute to your Mom. I was sure she was your sister when I first saw her photo. Her humor and her way of remaining "strict" when necessary are just the balance this mom, here commenting, would like to try for 🙂 and all those mother-daughter romps, too. Thanks for the inspiration. And felicitations to your Mom on her engagement. You are a lovely daughter to share and to encourage her happiness.
wonderful post. Christmas, they so often say, is all about the children, and it is at this time of year I find myself thinking of the Mom and Dad who worked so hard to make the holiday meaningful for their kids, and thank you for reminding me of that, and those good times. XXXX
I cannot believe you guys look so much alike. Truly amazing. And, the love with which you speak of her and your childhood activities is wonderful. And, that black horse is outstanding and so is the rider!
Oh Heather, you know that I am sitting here with a lump in my throat and tears in my eyes. I so loved reading your piece and getting know your incredible mother a bit, if only through your beautiful words. The talks around the kitchen table…I had those, too, and they are one of the things I miss so much – my talks with my mom are different now, they take place a lot of the time at the neighborhood Starbucks typically, but happily my mom's lovey spirit remains in tact. How lucky you are to have grown up with such a strong and beautiful mother – and she is lucky to have you as a daughter. I know that nothing can fill the gap of not having your loved ones with you at Christmas, but the beautiful memories just don't fade as I am finding out this year. Love to you. XOXO
Adored your piece, Heather… one of your very best… 🙂
xv
I am sure she would be so proud and so unbelievably chuffed to read this…I think you just gave her the best Xmas pressie! x
Jackie, I do but oh it has been too long since I was actually there. Over a year now which is far too long!! Am missing all of my family in Ann Arbor quite a bit this holiday season…
Merci Karena! Happy Holidays to you!!!!